Let’s talk about feminine energy and self-worship.
A client once told me, “I’m tired of living in my masculine energy all the time… but I also don’t want to feel weak.”
It’s such a common and heartbreaking misconception. That softness is weakness. That feminine energy means abandoning your voice, your boundaries, your backbone.
But that’s not what feminine energy is. And it’s definitely not what self-worship is.
Self-worship isn’t about putting yourself above others.
It’s about returning to the truth that you are sacred, too. It’s about no longer abandoning yourself in the name of productivity, perfection, or pleasing.
When you stop hiding your feminine energy and start listening to her, you enter into a deeper communion with yourself. That’s self-worship.
Those words may sound simple maybe even beautiful. But putting them into practice? That’s where it gets tender. Because most of us were never taught how to honor and worship ourselves as the queens we are.
That’s why I created the Self-Worship Devotion Codes. They’re not just ideas. They’re invitations into reverence. A rhythm of coming back to the woman you already are.
Why the Devotion Codes matter:
These Codes guide you back to the parts of you that may have been shamed, silenced, or overlooked. Each one is designed to reconnect you to feminine energy as a living frequency not a vibe, not a trend, but a sacred practice.
Here’s what happens when you begin living them:
- You treat self-care as nourishment, not just maintenance.
- You love yourself deeply, not conditionally.
- You listen to your intuition, even when it whispers.
- You trust your emotions to guide not derail you.
- You rest when your body asks, without guilt.
- You make peace your new home frequency.
Living the Devotion Codes isn’t about checking boxes. It’s about choosing yourself again and again in real life. Which brings us to your next choice…
So, how might you worship yourself today? Not in theory. In devotion. In real, tangible practice.
Close your eyes. Place a hand on your heart or belly. Ask your body, your inner voice, your feminine soul: “What’s one small way I can honor you right now?”
Then listen. Whatever she reveals, however subtle or simple, commit to honoring it within the next 24 hours.
This is how self-worship begins. One small yes at a time.
P.S. The other night, I was lying in bed watching TV, and I asked that question. She said, “Go for a walk.” My mind replied, “But it’s 8:05 pm.” She whispered back, “And the sun is still out!”
So, in true self-worship form, I got up, threw a sundress on over my PJ’s and walked for eight minutes. No overthinking. No perfection. Just devotion.
P.P.S. Devotion Code 01: The Homecoming is ready for you.
Enjoy!